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Losing Our Souls

Ok, I realize I am a bit late to the incensed rants about the endless toy recalls, but as this morning’s first sip of steaming coffee passed my lips I heard the announcement for yet another Mattel Toy Recall. I mean come on, it’s taking me back to the lightning-fast fall of Britney Spears as she drank and stumbled her way to that fateful shaving incident, her eyes dead and an entire nation riveted.

Do we not see the same downward spiral with our society?

The news piece said that lead paint is used because it makes the paint dry faster, speeding production time. It also makes the products shinier, appealing to kids. So, we want everything quicker and cheaper. We want our toys, and people for that matter, shinier and newer.

What happened to fascinating? Friends, toys and idols being chosen for the ways that they challenged and delighted us? Are we really so obsessed with the outside of things that we are willing to put chemicals in produce to make them shine, inject chemicals into our lips to make them plump, implant foreign substances into our breasts to make them pert, fuel milk production in cows with hormones that pass to the milk we drink, allow mysterious injections in meat, and abide the continued use of poison in toys?

 Where have our souls gone? Are they being tossed out with wrinkles and imagination? Childhood and creativity? Can we get back to a place that allows entertainment to come from simpler things, the wisdom and wit that springs from the youngest mouths, rather than the humiliating, stammering of a young woman, painted and primped to perfection, but steered too far from anything but her own reflection?

Maybe it’s time to look in the mirror. Let’s take stock of our priorities. Let’s not be afraid to speak up, particularly in the times when our opinion will not be the shiniest, or the plumpest. Our positions will be gnarly and dense and laid bare alongside the polished and canned, but it will be ours that will sustain our children through bitter winters and times that pretty smiles and shiny hair will be nothing but trappings of another time.

Let’s reclaim our souls, and, in doing so, the future of our children. It’s time.

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  1. Lisa Milton said:

    Well put. (Did you read my mind?)

  2. slouching mom said:

    Amen, sister. Amen.

  3. mom of a munchkin said:

    What a great way to put it. That really is what it comes down to isn’t it? Faster, shinier, newer. Thanks for speaking up.

  4. Janet said:

    My local talk radio station spent the whole morning on this topic. Being a consumer is becoming scary business.

  5. Izzy said:

    Are we really so obsessed with the outside of things that we are willing to put chemicals in produce to make them shine, inject chemicals into our lips to make them plump, implant foreign substances into our breasts to make them pert, fuel milk production in cows with hormones that pass to the milk we drink, allow mysterious injections in meat, and abide the continued use of poison in toys?

    I’ve had similar thoughts and it’s really disturbing how our culture has become so fixated on the prettier, faster, newer and better. I’d happily forgo all of it in order to be able to eat, drink, play and breathe without wondering what kind of cancer me or my kids are going to get.

  6. Kris said:

    Yes, agreed. Personally, I am tired of bigger, better, faster. That IS the American mentality, though, is it not? As a whole?

  7. SusieJ said:

    I just read a lengthy article in the WSJ about Mattel’s repeated delays in letting the public know about safety problems. I posted about it, outlining the power wheel toy fires, and how it took them several years to go public, even though they had reports from consumers.

    And, Mattel won’t name the company in China responsible for the lead paint, and they are still making toys for other manufacturers. S o as we sit here, more toys with lead are being made.

  8. Occidental Girl said:

    Oh, boy. Well said! I agree. We are headed down a dark and dangerous path: cheaper, brighter, and shinier does not equal better, or even mean safe. It is scary.

    There are some values that are not worth selling out for the lowest bidder. I’m glad developing countries are gaining ground financially and all, but how about doing so in a way that is ethical?

    And, whatever happened to American manufacturers? Oh yes, most were out-bid by foreign companies for being able to make things more cheaply. Wonderful.

  9. nutmeg said:

    YOU GO GIRL!

  10. Jenn said:

    Soul claiming in progress.

  11. Sarah (In the Trenches of Mommyhood) said:

    Amen. So true. And so well put.

    And so discouraging…

    Ack.

  12. cate said:

    I’ve been writing a post for the past few days on exactly this, although mine is not written quite so eloquently (there may be some profane language). I am disgusted by the toy manufacturers willingness to make their bottom line a higher priority than the health and safety of millions of children worldwide. I feel angry, betrayed, sick, and worst of all, helpless.

  13. Moms Speak Up » Blog Archive » Would it Be So Bad? said:

    […] by some of the comments to Amanda’s post Losing Our Souls, I just want to vent a little and say it’s effing unbelievable that Mattel won’t […]

  14. Damselfly said:

    Wow.

    Where have our souls gone? I think they are being sold. We’ve been sold on the idea things can be easy, what we want can be easy to obtain if we’re willing to pay for it.

    Thanks for the reality check.



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