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Myspace Hoax Brought to Courts

In my part of the country, the case of the mom who was a participant in a Myspace hoax that ended tragically with a 13-year-old girl committing suicide is a big news.  Please read the whole story here.  On the McGraw Milhaven radio show this morning he interviewed the mother, Tina Meier, of the young girl.  Basically the indicted mother, Lori Drew, was found guilty of posting under a fake profile.  The radio host brought up an interesting point? 

 

The host asked if it is a crime to make up a false profile?  In his view, people make up fake profiles all the time, and that in itself is not a crime.  Is he right or wrong? Sexual predators make up fake profiles and they are indicted.  Investigators make up false profiles to catch these criminals. 

The case did not get far in the Missouri courts because there is no law that speaks directly to what happen.  A case could be made that our laws are not keeping up with the Internet.  Since Myspace is based out of California, the case was filed in the U.S. District Court in Los Angeles.  Here is an issue where people in St. Louis are equally torn on what side to take: One side says Drew did a very ugly thing by creating a false profile to torment a young girl, and second side asks should Meier have been more alert to her daughter’s Myspace interaction? 

Here we have a case that truly points to the ugly side of the Internet and how the laws are not keeping up with Internet crimes.  

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  1. FireMom said:

    I think the argument of whether or not the mother should have been more aware of what her daughter was doing on the internet falls flat on its face on this specific topic. This daughter was not creating pipe bombs or hoarding guns like other cases in which people have said that parents should be more aware. This was the victim. If she hadn’t been bullied on the internet, she would have been bullied in another form or fashion. Maybe if she had known she could have gotten her daughter help before the suicide took place but, really? Do you personally know any mothers of children who have committed suicide? They carry a burden of guilt with them for the rest of their lives. The “what ifs” eat at them for an eternity. I have watched an older-mother friend of mine deal with this over the past three years and I pray that I am never wearing her shoes. She asks, every day, what more she could have done, what she could have said, what she could have prevented.

    I’m not sure what the answers are regarding fake profiles, the internet and this specific case but give this mother a small break. She lost her daughter. Don’t place more guilt at her feet.

  2. Outraged In Canada said:

    I’ve been following this story for a while now and I’m so glad that this mother was charged. Anyone who creates a false identity in order to intimidate, harass or bully someone, especially a mother of a 13 year old daughter herself, has a serious problem. 13 year old girls are vulnerable enough without having some moron toy with their emotions. As for the mother of the victim - any parent of a child who commits suicide feels guilty and my heart goes out to her. Place the blame where it belongs - on the woman who got her kicks out of bullying a young girl.

  3. Julie Pippert said:

    Blame the mother of the victim? That’s low.

    Yes, we need to be aware of what our children are doing on the Internet and I advocate keeping computer in public, family spaces, but in this case, the mother thought her daughter was talking to a friend (if my memory is right).

    I’m concerned about the idea that there can be these legal consequences for creating a false profile, but if the intent is criminal and/or to defraud and harm, then yes, I agree.

    It’s tragic all around.

    Hopefully it won’t happen again.



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