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Getting in Touch with Their Feminine Sides: Presidential Hopefuls Reach Out to Women

by Ann Bibby

An interesting article on MSNBC today discusses the need John McCain and Barack Obama have for women these days. Neither of them having captured the hearts and souls of the all important “woman (of a certain age) vote”. Although the Obama campaign expresses confidence that come the fall Democratic women who supported Clinton will be over her defeat in the primaries and ready to oust the Republicans, McCain sees these same voters as up for grabs to the man best in touch with his feminine side.

As a registered Independent, I have always voted Democratic in presidential elections, and this has meant working up enthusiasm for several lackluster nominees over the last 24 years. Is anyone old enough to recall Dukakis in the tank? But even if Obama fell into the camp of “I suck it up and vote Demo for the sake of my country” - and he does not - I had made up my mind months ago that putting a Democrat back in the White House is really the only hope the United States has left.

John McCain is not a women friendly (or even women’s issues interested in my opinion) candidate, and it makes me a bit ashamed of my gender to hear women profess that they will stay home in November or vote for McCain simply because Barack Obama was not the woman of their choice.

This kind of strategy is best left back in middle school where it wasn’t all that effective the first time around.

In terms of voting on women’s issues, Obama has a record nearly identical to that of Sen. Clinton whereas McCain is in favor of rolling back Roe V. Wade (which regardless of your feelings about abortion can’t happen because when it does there will be no end to legislation aimed at reducing women’s rights - if we haven’t say over our own bodies then what does our freedom really come down to?), and he is in no way concerned about the lack of access to affordable health insurance which is a problem that affects women and children the most.

Frankly, when I read that McCain’s campaign is trying to put him in touch with his feminine side, I laughed out loud. No man has less chance of that than he does.

Funnily enough I don’t feel any great love being directed at me as both candidates are supposedly vying for my affection. Perhaps because they both know that Obama has already won?

No matter, it will still very be interesting to hear what Obama and McCain have to say as they state their cases over the coming months.

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  1. Mommy of Wonder Twins said:

    I’m sorry to disagree, but Obama has not already won. I also feel that neither candidate is a very good choice, but I will take my chances with McCain. Obama’s lack of experience running any large organization scares me to death. And it’s all well and good to talk change (we all know a lot of “big talkers”), but how are you going to do it … specifically and realistically (no pie in the sky plans please)? And going from conservative to the most liberal won’t help things very much either. We need someone more in the middle of the political spectrum, which is where most Americans fall.

  2. Ann said:

    Agree to disagree. McCain has no real interest in domestic matters and has admitted as much. The U.S. can’t take another 4 years of benign neglect where the only policy is to encourage Americans to spend themselves deeper into debt (we have a credit crunch and a mortgage disaster to thank for that kind of thinking now).

    I admit that Obama has been slow on the details but his campaign is getting more specific and I don’t see where McCain’s great experience has gotten him a leg up. He’s proven that he isn’t all that great at working with others - his own party is lukewarm on the idea of him and that is telling.

    We had a centrist in Bill Clinton, but we won’t get that again. We have allowed our country to be bent and blow about too long by special interest groups for that to happen. The question to ask is, for me, who is more likely to protect my rights as a woman. And the answer is not McCain.



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